Part 3 - Time Management
Read Part 1 or Part 2 before you read this post !
Time management - You dont have this you dont have everything, you cannot plan a good stuff nvm. But you still need to know how to manage your time.
Trust
Im god damn sure . most of everyone is already 19. Your parents should be thinking u as a young adult then a baby for now ! Most parents will trust what you do already by now .
Unless, you always allow your parents to look at you in a wrong way. Always always allow your parents to know what kind of person you are !
Let you Parents know your Organising a Event !
I always ask my parents, on this DATE is there anything on... Let them go give themselves a small check and come back to you.... After that let them know... On that day you got something on... Ask them to note it down and make sure there is nothing on for that date because your doing a event !
A Man of His Words
I always let my parents know in a way if i promise somebody then i will be there, you must be a man of your word... You say you can do it... Then you must do it !
Dont give a me words full of crap and after that, there is nothing going on then a waste of my saliva talking to you !
When you giving someone a word... You giving them a promise... When your giving a promise your giving someone hope. And if you didnt do all those... Everyone will lose hope in you... Thus... the same theory is the story of Crying for Wolf !
If you lost hope into yourself . We will also lost hope into you .
Bring out the best of yourself and be a man... And stood up and be a man of your word... If it doesnt happen change the date and allow it to happen for the 2nd time !
If you say you will do it then you must do it ! That way, you gain your trust. Then when you gain trust, you gain loyalty. You gain loyalty, you gain respect !
My Time Line Management
My life time record of organising a BBQ was within a day of 6 hours... including buying the food and preparation of food... That was the fastest i ever rmb !
Because i settle everything and everyone right infront of my eyes and money. Those were school days now we're not.
We're working, Studying / serving NS... So ya.... Everything is triple the time-line for organising even a very small events !
So the basic layout !
Confirming the a choices of event dates - 1-2 days
Invitations responses - 1 week - 2 weeks
Preparations for BBQ - 3 days
This is for a BBQ time line management. As for asking people out it is cut down into just 1-2weeks in total.
Preparation why i put as 3 days is because of the cooking of some food for some reason ?! Marinating of chicken wings or whatever you name it.
Invitations - 1 weeks is just a msg sent some ppl can be in army and they receive the msg late or whatever ! That is why 1-2 weeks... Half of the week is gone you also should bother to call up ppl one by one if they didnt ever reply or call back to you...
MOST OF THE PEOPLE ARE AN ASSHOLE FOR NOT USING THEIR CELLPHONE INTO FULL ADVANTAGE BECAUSE THEY THINK A FUCKING PHONE SMS OR CALL WILL COST THEM A FIRE INTO THEIR POCKET !
So please do call them up one by one like a loan shark.... Hehe...
OH OH OH YA !!! Dont fucking think i do everything through my head and oragnise everything right inside my brain... Always get a notepad or book....
Write how is your plan going to be like... Budget.... Money claim from everyone etc...
Locations and who is going, imagine a hundred people is coming your not going to remember all 100 ppl names right ?! =)
GET A NOTEPAD OR BOOK ! It helps alot !
Time management - You dont have this you dont have everything, you cannot plan a good stuff nvm. But you still need to know how to manage your time.
Trust
Im god damn sure . most of everyone is already 19. Your parents should be thinking u as a young adult then a baby for now ! Most parents will trust what you do already by now .
Unless, you always allow your parents to look at you in a wrong way. Always always allow your parents to know what kind of person you are !
Let you Parents know your Organising a Event !
I always ask my parents, on this DATE is there anything on... Let them go give themselves a small check and come back to you.... After that let them know... On that day you got something on... Ask them to note it down and make sure there is nothing on for that date because your doing a event !
A Man of His Words
I always let my parents know in a way if i promise somebody then i will be there, you must be a man of your word... You say you can do it... Then you must do it !
Dont give a me words full of crap and after that, there is nothing going on then a waste of my saliva talking to you !
When you giving someone a word... You giving them a promise... When your giving a promise your giving someone hope. And if you didnt do all those... Everyone will lose hope in you... Thus... the same theory is the story of Crying for Wolf !
If you lost hope into yourself . We will also lost hope into you .
Bring out the best of yourself and be a man... And stood up and be a man of your word... If it doesnt happen change the date and allow it to happen for the 2nd time !
If you say you will do it then you must do it ! That way, you gain your trust. Then when you gain trust, you gain loyalty. You gain loyalty, you gain respect !
My Time Line Management
My life time record of organising a BBQ was within a day of 6 hours... including buying the food and preparation of food... That was the fastest i ever rmb !
Because i settle everything and everyone right infront of my eyes and money. Those were school days now we're not.
We're working, Studying / serving NS... So ya.... Everything is triple the time-line for organising even a very small events !
So the basic layout !
Confirming the a choices of event dates - 1-2 days
Invitations responses - 1 week - 2 weeks
Preparations for BBQ - 3 days
This is for a BBQ time line management. As for asking people out it is cut down into just 1-2weeks in total.
Preparation why i put as 3 days is because of the cooking of some food for some reason ?! Marinating of chicken wings or whatever you name it.
Invitations - 1 weeks is just a msg sent some ppl can be in army and they receive the msg late or whatever ! That is why 1-2 weeks... Half of the week is gone you also should bother to call up ppl one by one if they didnt ever reply or call back to you...
MOST OF THE PEOPLE ARE AN ASSHOLE FOR NOT USING THEIR CELLPHONE INTO FULL ADVANTAGE BECAUSE THEY THINK A FUCKING PHONE SMS OR CALL WILL COST THEM A FIRE INTO THEIR POCKET !
So please do call them up one by one like a loan shark.... Hehe...
OH OH OH YA !!! Dont fucking think i do everything through my head and oragnise everything right inside my brain... Always get a notepad or book....
Write how is your plan going to be like... Budget.... Money claim from everyone etc...
Locations and who is going, imagine a hundred people is coming your not going to remember all 100 ppl names right ?! =)
GET A NOTEPAD OR BOOK ! It helps alot !
